Everyone in this world has their other half that will complete them but it's up to us to find them. Everybody wants love and passion in their life, everybody wants to be happy and nobody in this world wants to be alone. As much as men want to seem independent they aren't, behind every men there is a woman that made him the way that he is. When it comes to their loved ones guys will melt and be much more in love with you then they want to show you sometimes. Ladies when ever you wonder does he love me doesn't he, just take a deep breath and realize that your a wonderful woman and of course he's in love with you.
In a relationship most guys would like to "wear the pants" but we all know that when it comes down to it we are the neck of every men we will help guide them which way to turn. Even if he acts like a jerk most of the time he's just doing it to get your attention.
- When a woman reacts emotionally, men get three things: attention, control and the feeling of importance. He will push all the right buttons just to see how you will react to it. If you take it to heart he will know how much you care and he will see how much he can get away with. If you want to keep the control of the relationship in balance just don't take everything he says to heart.
- Men attend to make you jealous of other women. Does he ever check a girl out right in front of you? Or act overly nice to the waitress? Most of the time it's just to see you squirm. Its always nice to see how much the other person cares and when you think that someone else is interested in him as well then you will be more territorial of him and men LOVE TO SEE THAT. When your girlfriend gets jealous and territorial it gives him a boost of confidence. As nice as it is for him to feel great about himself just keep in mind that he's not doing it to hurt you, he's just doing it to get your attention.
- Once you start doing the same thing he's doing his bad behavior will magically disappear. Once the tables have turned and your the one checking out that guy walking next to you or flirting with the cute waiter, he will definitely see how it feels. As long as you don't get upset when he does it to you, and when you do it back to him You will be the one in control. Even though both of you don't have a desire to act upon that flirtation, they still like to test us to see how much we care.
- The more rational and calm you remain, the more emotional he will become. The more you cry about him hurting you and let it ruin your day the more he will see that he's in control. If you act like it doesn't bother you (even if its eating you up inside call a girlfriend we will always listen) he will definitely stop doing it because if you don't show him any attention then its not fun for him to do it anymore.
You're more beautiful than you think, more talented than you know and more loved than you can ever imagine.